Confidence, Capacity & the Vertical Mindset: The Inner Work of Forward Living
True confidence isn’t born from perfection; it’s forged in action. We build it by showing up, even when we feel unsure. When we pivot through life’s trials with emotional agility and aligned awareness, we unlock our capacity to not just survive adversity but to grow despite it.
Rather than chasing endless action or flawlessness, focus on effectiveness over perfection. Bold, deliberate steps, especially when imperfect, are what spark growth. “Stop waiting for perfect timing or outside validation. You have more than enough to begin. Your gifts, talents, and voice are not accidents. The moment you choose to activate them, you begin building confidence and capacity.”
In this light, failure becomes a resource. It carries the lessons that refine our mindset and sharpen our skill set. As you take calculated risks, practice becoming a manager of the unknown rather than a victim of it. “Projects and plans fail where there is low confidence and values.” Confidence, then, becomes the fuel for follow-through.
Let go of trying to control what you can’t. Don’t be over-consumed by the uncontrollable. Focus on what you can influence, your choices, your mindset, your voice. Even what’s in your heart. Make the effort to tame emotions so fear doesn’t make a hostile takeover and run your confidence into the ground. Bring self-kindness while constant rediscovery happens during your journey.
Also, give yourself permission to begin again. Be okay with being new. No matter your age, you are both a student and then the giver. God designed us to keep learning, keep growing, and keep offering what we’ve gained.
This is where the Vertical Mindset comes in—a mindset of upward development that transcends merely acquiring skills. It’s about upgrading your internal operating system and maybe your worldview. But what’s paramount is owning patience while earning shimmers of intuition that adds up to wisdom. “Vertical mindset is acquired with loving patience and paced perseverance.”
Rooted in my book “11 Pillars of Confidence”, this mindset emphasizes:
• Self-respect, self-awareness, and self-acceptance
• Purpose-driven action
• Resilience in setbacks
• Discipline and accountability
• Ongoing learning and internal trust
You don’t need all the answers to move forward. The necessities are self-belief, infinite courage, and the willingness to grow upward.
“Beam with your dream by putting fire on your desire.”
And always remember: “Conquer self, confidence abounds.” Confidence is your compass. Keep climbing.
Shine on!
“11 PILLARS OF CONFIDENCE” is available on all online book retailers.
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